10 Man Tips From Tyler

14 January 2010
Posted in Dating 101

Hi everyone, this my first post on Psyduction and I'm going to take this opportunity to bring you some man tips to help out the endangered species that is the real-man. Why are real-men endangered? I'm not 100% sure, it could be a few reasons - help me out in the comments if you've got a theory.

Today I'm gonna share some man-tips with you that'll teach you how to be a man-machine of everything sexual.

1. Comfort

Every time you get into a situation you're uncomfortable in you start to get needy. This isn't sexy. If you end up in an uncomfortable situation, don't worry. Just man-up and see it for what it really is - a challenge! A man-challenge! Failure of the challenge alerts women to back off and that's the last thing you want.

2. Nothing is a big deal

NOTHING! Even if she rejects you in front of 1,000's of people on stage - it's not a big deal. Other women in the audience would be thinking "wow, that man has huge balls", so use that to your advantage. If you don't take anything as a big deal, generally the rule states that big deals will seize to occur.

3. Keep your behaviour

If your start the night as a man-hulk and it's working, you need to prolong it the entire night. If you shift behaviours half way through the night she's going to know some thing's fishy and lose attraction fairly quickly. Especially if you went from man-hulk to choir boy.

4. You are big brother, she's little bratty sister

Have you got a sister? If you have, you know exactly how to go about teasing her. If not, here's something to learn: women love being teased. Normally women get what they want handed to them on a silver platter from men. So when you come along and tease her by asking why she's wearing a cardigan you're sure your nan has you break straight through her boy-rejection mechanisms into her real-man category.

5. Questions - More teasing

If you've sat through a woman's question barrage you know how boring and tedious it can become. So instead, answer with random answers such as occupation: professional stripper, and watch her get even more mystified by you. Or, you could simply not answer them and use the golden word "Maybe".

6. Nicknames

Nicknames are gold. Pure 90-carrot-man-gold. Nothing shows confidence and manliness faster than giving a woman a nickname, especially if you've just met her. My favourite consists of Polly (as in Polly pocket), power puff (as in the girls) and brat. Although, I did help a man-friend recently nickname a woman with "Doug" that works just as well. When giving out a nickname you want to think up a name that's slightly demeaning and/or critical but one you both find funny. Don't take this as an opportunity to take the piss harshly or you'll need to start again with another woman, as she'd be gone.

7. Mannerisms

Woman are often all over the shop and do weird mannerism things. My girlfriend has a bag, in a bag in a bag and carries it around? I mean, wtf? Only a woman could do such a thing. So when you're in a situation where you notice something like that from a woman, bring it up and mention how weird it is. Women look for validation so if you pull this off, she'll stick to you until you give her it.

8. Your walk

Being congruent is very important and if you are talking and acting like the man's man but walk like a 14 year old male cheerleader then you need to sit down and sort it out. Walk like a man, walk slow, confidently and take up space - it's your space after all, so use it.

9. Don't aim for anything

Women can tell if you're talking to them because you want sex. Enter the situation and have fun without any outcome and your manliness enters new bounds of glory. If you see every opportunity as a fun encounter you'll be irresistible and most likely end up having sex anyway.

10. If she's with you, she likes you

Believe it. Doesn't matter if she backs away from a kiss, she's with you and that's all that matters. Boys often believe woman are constantly picking at them and testing them the entire time they're together but fail to realise that single golden point - she wouldn't be there, if she didn't like you. If you were once in the boy category, get yourself into the man category and embrace that point.

11. EXTRA: You can get away with anything

Extra tip to take away which deserves a post of it's own. If you're confidence enough with a strong enough manliness - you can get away with anything. And I've tested this to the max, believe me. I've acted like an arsehole, pushed all boundaries and get away with it - why? Because I'm a man and following these tips will lead you there too.

Got any man-tips I've left out? Take some time to comment and I'll get back to you.